Friday, September 20, 2013

MA - 'I'm the Level 3 Sex Offender All Of You Have Been Talking About'

Level 3 sex offender talking at a public meeting that included Belmont Police Chief Richard McLaughlin.
Original Article

09/20/2013

By Franklin Tucker

In an extraordinary presentation, Belmont's highest level sex offender speaks to residents about their concerns of him.

The tall, middle-aged man strode to the microphone in front of approximately 100 citizens in the Belmont High School auditorium Thursday night, Sept. 19.

Wearing loose-fitting jeans, a T-shirt and unbutton shirt combo over a slight paunch, the man could be anyone of thousands of parents or guardians ready to speak about school fees, the latest round of test scores or if the town can afford a new High School. He was anything but.

"My name is _____. 'I'm the level 3 sex offender all of you have been talking about," said the 48-year-old Bernard Road resident as the audience sat in rapt silence, several holding a hand to their mouth, others sitting forward in their chairs, all waiting on each sentence.

In an extraordinary public pronouncement (nearly all offenders avoid making statements or will only speak if given anonymity) _____ said at the public meeting organized by the Belmont Police Department to inform residents of _____, the first level 3 offender to reside in town since 2006 that residents only know the most basic information about him and the reason he was sentenced to jail for four years a dozen years ago.

"It seems as though the big reason why we are here tonight is me," said _____, a 6-foot, 5-inch, glasses-wearing former Lexington resident who moved to Belmont in late July to a house on Barnard Street where his wife and their 14-year-old daughter have been living.

"The problem is all you know, all you get to know about my problem is what you read ... which says I'm the most dangerous and the most likely to reoffend of all sex offenders. It also says my offense was the rape against a child," said _____, as state officials, law enforcement and Belmont Police who spoke earlier stood behind him.

Speaking in a calm, slightly high-pitched flat voice, _____ described in the most general terms a single incident, an assault, he committed on his 14-year-old niece in 2000.

"I don't want to hear this!" a women cried out from the back of the hall, breaking the tension with the outburst.

"Just go!," said another.

"It happened over the course of a weekend 12 years ago," said _____.

"Nobody cares," came another response.

But for the majority in the hall, _____'s admission was compelling.

"This is important," explained a resident who said she came to the meeting not knowing anything about _____ or even the issue of a level 3 sex offender living in town.

"Whoever is uncomfortable, we respect that. But we are being told that we need to be knowledgable to protect our children," she said, adding that she wanted to hear what "Mr. _____" had to say.

"I'm shocked what I'm hearing but I want to hear it," she said to the applause of many.

"It's not important what I did," said _____, to the derision of some.

"What's important is that I'm not the victim. I'm a sex offender and I committed a crime and I did spend four years in prison for," he said.

"You were charged with rape," answered a resident.

"The problem with that word is when I hear [it] and [the phrase] a sex offender likely to reoffend, what I hear is 'a pedophile.' That word has been tossed around ... That is not what happened in my case," said _____ who told the audience about the incident again, his immediate confession to the parents and law enforcement.

"It scared me when this happened. Before this happened, I would have said and meant it, 'I would never have an offense against a child. That wasn't who I am.' But the problem was I did have an offense against a child," he said.

"One of the scariest thing while spending time in prison was wondering ... that it will not happen again," said _____, saying that he has been in therapy for the past eight years with Dr. Carol Ball, a licensed psychologist in Arlington and a founder of New England Forensic Associates, "to answer that question."

"At this point, I know that it will never happen again," said _____.

"You don't."

"There is nothing that I can say that says 'You don't have to worry about me,'" he said. "One thing I can say is I will answer any questions you have ever," including how his therapy is placing safeguards to prevent another act from occurring.

He discussed initiating meetings with Belmont High School Principal Dr. Dan Richards and his church's pastor (another long-time educator, former Watertown High Head Master Steve Watson) on "the kind of things that scare people" about him.

"I don't want to scare people," said _____. "You are afraid of me and I hate that. There's not a whole lot that I can do about that, except some of the things I can do," such as not talking or "hanging out" with children and informing all their friends and the parents of his daughter's friends about him and his past.

_____ said his crime was against a family member, not "running down the street and see some children.'" The question whether I should be living near a preschool is a question that is more asked in general" about people like _____.

"My crime was not against pre-school children or somebody I didn't know or lots of lots of children. It was against my niece," said _____.

"If you have serious questions, talk to me," he said.

_____ and his wife, who sat next to him at the meeting, said they are not immune to the fears of those who wish to harm children.

"I'm a parent. I have a 14-year-old daughter. On the first day of school, a white SUV showed up and approached a child. I'm a level 3 sex offender; it scared me to death. We talked about this to our daughter. I talked to this about my wife. What happened is the kid did not get picked up. He knew exactly what to do. The kid said 'This is not OK' and went away and told the police. There's not much else [parents] can do except [talk to them]," _____ said.

At the end of the meeting, as the audience was leaving, a smartly-dressed man came up to _____, shook his hand and said it was a "brave" thing for him to acknowledge what he did and present himself to the town.

_____ simply nodded and stared straight ahead.

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2 comments :

USMarine said...

Bravo for his honesty.

bkzalley said...

Maybe if more offenders came forward like this, it might start changing the opinions of some. This could be used as a tool for reform. Police officers could help with this by being there at meeting with the offenders. I am sure there are more offenders who would like to do this. Just too afraid. Open communication is the key to any relationship and the community and the offender could benefit from this kind of exchange. Very brave man and hopefully a trail blazer.