Diigo Post Excerpt:
Myth or fact? Sexual abuse is less harmful to boys than girls.
When we teach adults how to protect children from child sexual abuse, we start with "Learn the facts." Here's the first fact: The long term consequences for victims of child sexual abuse are nearly identical regardless of gender, according to a number of recent studies.
Our societal perception frequently does not recognize this when it comes to women abusing boys. In this regard, a very important discussion was presented in a recent Statesman article between the Ada County prosecutor and the judge in a case regarding the abuse of eight teenage boys by a 35-year-old mother in Kuna.
According to the article, the judge disagreed with the prosecutor, who argued that female perpetrators are "treated more leniently than men and that boys (abused by women) are somehow considered 'lucky.'" The judge concluded that "there is a difference" between boys abused by women and girls abused by men. "I have a problem articulating what the difference is," he said.