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Sunday, January 27, 2013

NV - Mary Kay Beckman Sues Match.Com After Date Attacks Her

Mary Kay Beckman
Original Article

This is not about a sexual crime, but it is similar to the Carol Markin incident? Meeting people, online or in a bar, is dangerous, period, and the court should through this out. She needs to take responsibility for her own actions. Was she almost killed due to her own stupidity, telling the man where she lived? It's horrendous what she has been through, and the man should be convicted of attempted murder, spending the rest of his life in prison, but sueing Match.com for your own stupidity? If she wins, which is doubtful, then are all web sites going to be required to do background checks on everyone? And there are discrepancies in the two videos below. The dates don't jive. So who is right?

01/25/2013

By RUSSELL GOLDMAN

A Las Vegas woman is suing Match.com for $10 million, after the online dating service allegedly paired her with a man who stabbed her 10 times in the face and chest in an attempt to kill her.

Mary Kay Beckman, 50, claims in a lawsuit filed earlier this month that she joined the website looking for a "healthy loving relationship," but instead was nearly killed.

Beckman says she went on a few dates in October 2011 with [name withheld], but after ending the relationship came home one day to find him in her garage with a knife.
- How did the man know where you lived?  Did you tell him?

[name withheld] "brutally stabbed [Beckman] 10 times with a knife about her head, face and upper body, until the overwhelming force he applied to the stabbing caused the knife to break," according to court documents.

According to her lawsuit, [name withheld] then "stomped and kicked" her in the head until she "stopped making the gurgling noise" and left her for dead.

A neighbor found Beckman and she was rushed to the hospital where she endured multiple surgeries over several weeks.

While Beckman was in the hospital, [name withheld] was arrested for the murder of an Arizona woman, also an ex-girlfriend. Many of the details of Beckman's attack came from [name withheld] himself when police later questioned him.

He told police he waited for Beckman in her garage and had killed the other woman because he felt they had both jilted him, according to an arrest report.

[name withheld], who had no prior record of dangerous crimes, was convicted of the other murder and died in jail last year while serving a 70-year sentence.

Match.com argues the lawsuit is frivolous and says it offers tips for safe dating on the site. Online dating is no less safe than meeting someone "at a bar or at church," said Match spokeswoman Eva Ross.

"What happened to Mary Kay Beckman is horrible, but this lawsuit is absurd," Ross said in a statement. "The many millions of people who have found love on Match.com and other online dating sites know how fulfilling it is. And while that doesn't make what happened in this case any less awful, this is about a sick, twisted individual with no prior criminal record, not an entire community of men and women looking to meet each other."

In her suit Beckman says the tips posted on the Match.com site do not go far enough and the company needs to overtly warn users of potential dangers.
- This is why products contain warning labels, for people like this woman!





Sunday, April 8, 2012

NY - Want to friend a sex offender?

Original Article

04/07/2012

By Tracy Clark-Flory

A push is under way to restrict registrants from social networking, virtual gaming and online dating

UPDATE:

Imagine a little boy playing Xbox Live with a registered sex offender, a girl striking up a Facebook friendship with a child molester, a Match.com member going on a date with a convicted rapist. These are just a few of the both real world and imagined scenarios that have inspired attempts in recent weeks to restrict registered sex offenders from social networking, virtual gaming and online dating.
- Next it will be "Imagine your child going to the grocery store and a sex offender is present," or "Imagine riding on the city bus, and a sex offender is there."  When does it stop?

The aim of these approaches is understandable, but their effectiveness is questionable, and some experts see potential for it to backfire. What’s more, the breadth of these restrictions, and the inexactness of who is targeted, raise an issue unlikely to garner much sympathy: fairness to sex offenders.

On Thursday, New York Attorney General Eric T. Schneiderman announced that through an initiative dubbed “Operation: Game Over,” several major gaming companies had removed the profiles of more than 3,500 registered sex offenders in the state. The day before, a Louisiana bill forbidding registered sex offenders from using social networking sites was approved by a state House committee. (A similar bill was signed into law in Illinois in 2009 and put on hold in California in 2011.) Late last month, Match.com, eHarmony and the Spark Networks signed a “joint statement of business principles to attempt to screen out registered sex offenders.
- So what about screening out all other criminals as well?

First, to the legal concerns: The ACLU filed a lawsuit in response to an earlier version of the Louisiana law, which seemed to apply not only to social networking sites but to most of the Internet, claiming that it was “overbroad” and would infringe upon “free speech rights under the First Amendment.” It was already signed into law but was struck down in February on the grounds that it was unconstitutional.

OK, so banning sex offenders from accessing most sites on the Web is unconstitutional, but what about banning them in more limited ways? Constitutionally speaking, where can the line be drawn? There are already strict restrictions placed on where sex offenders can live in the real-world — how far can we go in limiting their existence in the virtual realm?

Those questions are being sorted out on a law-by-law basis, says Ruthann Robson, a professor at CUNY School of Law. The revised version of the Louisiana bill more narrowly focuses on sites just like Facebook, but it could still include professional networking sites like LinkedIn, she says, and it’s still “infringing upon a group of people’s First Amendment rights.” She also underscores that it’s “creating a new crime [i.e. using Facebook] based upon their previous conviction.”

Courts have imperfect guidelines for evaluating these cases, she says. “If you’re convicted of a crime and you serve your time, there are very few things that extend beyond that — like some states have felony disenfranchisements and that sort of stuff,” Robson explains. “But when the United States Supreme Court upheld civil commitment and sex offender registries and all of that, they talked about it as civil and as not criminal.” Now, in evaluating whether bills like the one in Louisiana infringe on First Amendment rights, courts “don’t have an analogy, so sometimes they go toward criminal law, as though these people are in prison and as if this is part of punishment.

Of course, many people believe that there are compelling reasons for that. As anyone who has ever watched TV news knows, some offenders use the Internet — whether it’s through chat rooms or a social networking site — to victimize children, but the threat is overblown, according to research from the Internet Safety Technical Task Force. Bullying poses a greater threat online than sexual solicitation, and children’s greatest threat of sexual abuse comes from someone they know — a relative or family friend — not from a stranger on the other end of his or her Xbox. Still, protecting kids from predators with unprecedented access to them is important; there is no debate there. The question is how much good will be done by banning sex offenders from online venues populated with kids.
- What about stop stomping on the Constitution and people's Constitutional rights for bogus safety?  Why not work on educating kids on the dangers instead?

It’s too early to say for sure, as there isn’t any solid research. “We will have to wait years before we know whether re-offense rates change from the 10 to 15 percent that most long-term outcome studies show,” says James Cantor, a clinical and research psychologist and editor-in-chief of the scientific journal “Sexual Abuse.”
- There are tons of studies out there now that show sex offender recidivism is lower than any other crime, if you look for them.

It’s important to acknowledge that these attempts are easily circumvented by those willing to break the rules: For example, to make it onto a gaming platform, a New York state sex offender only has to create a new username that officials don’t have on file. Sure, it’s now a crime to do so — but so too is abusing children. Similarly, the online dating sites are only screening out sex offenders who provide identifying information that matches what is on the registry.

A major concern, in terms of both effectiveness and fairness, is how some of these approaches inelegantly lump together all kinds of sex offenders. The Louisiana bill applies only to those whose victim(s) were underage, but the video gaming initiative does not, even though the aim is to protect children. The online dating sites, which are presumably aiming to help protect members from being assaulted on dates, target all manner of sex offenders (while still allowing in suitors with, for example, a domestic violence rap sheet).

Not all sex offenders are the same, and it is usually a mistake to treat them as if they are,” says Cantor. The legal category can includes a wide range of offenses — from public urination to child molestation. That’s an extreme example — one signaling the need for registry reform above all else — but it’s also true that there are important individual distinctions in terms of the risks of re-offense.

Until we have more definitive evidence on these differences — which would require hard-to-come-by research funding — Cantor says, “These people would best be treated on a case-by-case basis: An offender who used networking sites as part of his offense would be banned, but offenders using them for pro-social purposes, such as participating in support groups, would be encouraged.” After all, these days so much normal social interaction happens online.

It isn’t just that Cantor disbelieves in such broad and ineffective restrictions but also that it might backfire. “One of the best ingredients in rehabilitating sex offenders appears to be helping them reintegrate into their community, not isolating them,” he says. “It’s when offenders feel that there is nothing left to lose — no job, no family, no place to live, no social contacts — that they can be most willing to flout the law and do something stupid.” In general, he says, the “‘one size fits all’ approach is often counter-productive as well as expensive to enforce.”

There are echoes here to the debate over the online classified site Backpage, in which there is general agreement over the goal of eradicating child trafficking but disagreement over how that can be achieved. In the case of restricting sex offenders from certain online venues, the question isn’t whether the aim of protecting children and adults alike from sexual abuse is necessary, but rather whether these are effective, beneficial and fair ways of going about it.



Sunday, March 25, 2012

CA - Banning sex offenders from online dating empowers predators

Video Description:
eHarmony, Match.com and Sparks, all online dating sites, just announced a California agreement to cross-reference members with the sex offender registry, based on a woman's allegations that she was victimized by someone she met through the site who had a previous sex crime conviction. The poorly-thought out plan, lauded by Attorney General Kamala Harris (Article, Facebook, YouTube), empowers predators and removes incentive for sex offenders to re-integrate healthily.



Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Lying on your Match.com profile could soon become a prosecutable crime

Original Article

Next we will be required to give our real names on all web sites, which is nothing more than an invasion of privacy.

11/16/2011

By Nina Golgowski

Single men and women may soon be able to release a sigh of relief before web browsing their next eligible date.

The U.S. Department of Justice proposed violations of a websites' terms and conditions as a prosecutable crime Tuesday.

While focused on crimes infringing national security, indirect beneficiaries to the proposal would be users of social media sites like Match.com, which advertises itself as a means of connecting single adult users through other users' profiles.

Often times, users' profiles are fabricated, however, casually disobeying the sites' stated rules of honesty by its users.

The amendments proposed to the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act by Deputy Section Chief Richard Downing, would mandate users to abide by all website conditions, such as Match.com's which restricts its users to: being at least 18 years of age, single or separated from their spouse and having never been convicted of a felony nor a registered sex offender.

In a statement delivered by Mr Downing to the House Judiciary Subcommittee on Crime, Terrorism and Homeland Security, he expressed his concern of difficulty or impossibility in deterring and addressing 'serious insider threats through prosecution' without amending the act.

While married men and women browsing dating sites with fabricated profile information wasn't named specifically by Mr Downing as a rational to his arguments Wednesday, single, honest users would still benefit from his proposals, which was generally pitched to decrease abuse by employees and contractors to employer's secure online information.

'Through this ongoing work, it has become clear that our Nation cannot improve its ability to defend against cyber threats unless certain laws that govern cybersecurity activities are updated, including the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act,' Mr Downing said in his statement.

The CFA Act had been previously used by the department in prosecuting a woman in 2008 who created a MySpace account pretending to be a teenage boy.
- Creating the profile wasn't the problem, it was the harassment and defamation, which are already crimes.

She was accused of using this account to fool and harass a 13-year-old girl to the point that she committed suicide.

The woman, Lori Drew, violating the site's terms of service which prohibits impersonation by its users, was found in violation of the act.
- This is just absurd, IMO.  So are we going to start prosecuting children and throwing them in prison for lying when they lie to get into a bar or purchase cigarettes?  Just someone posting something on their web site, doesn't make it a law or "act!"

Her case was thrown out, however, after the judge said that Drew's violation of a social network's terms of service would carry over to anyone else who has ever violated them, proving too broad of a decision.

The amendments to the act would find future violators guilty.


Tuesday, September 20, 2011

CA - Man sentenced in Match.com online dating assault

Original Article

And Carol Markin claimed this man was a sex offender. Well, if he now has to register, that would mean he wasn't a sex offender, but is now. You can also see all the other related posts, by clicking the "CarolMarkin" link above. She is an author of several books on "Bad Dates," and apparently didn't take her own advice. I personally think it was a publicity stunt, but that is just me.

09/19/2011

LOS ANGELES — A Los Angeles man has been sentenced to a year in jail on his no-contest plea to sexually assaulting a woman he met through the online dating site Match.com.

Jane Robison, a spokeswoman for Los Angeles County prosecutors, says [name withheld] also was sentenced Monday to five years of probation and was ordered to register as a sex offender and complete a year of counseling.

Wurtzel pleaded no contest last month to one count of sexual battery by restraint.

Wurtzel met the woman through the dating website and they went on two dates. Prosecutors said that during the second date [name withheld] drove the woman to her home and followed her inside, where he sexually assaulted her while holding her down.
- Why would she let a man she hardly knows, into her home?  I think she needs to investigate bad dating again, or maybe common sense?

The woman settled a lawsuit against Match.com.


Tuesday, August 23, 2011

CA - Match.com reaches settlement with rape victim

Carol Markin
Original Article

08/23/2011

LOS ANGELES (KABC) -- The dating website Match.com reached a court settlement Tuesday with a plaintiff who had been raped by a site user.

Carole Markin sued Match.com after being raped by a man she had two dates with through the website. The man, Alan Wurtzel, is a convicted sex offender.
- I checked his name, when this originally came out, and he was not on any registry I checked.  So maybe he is a sex offender now, because of this case, but wasn't when she dated him, so this new invasion of privacy would not have prevented this rape.  Hell, she has several books out on the subject, so why didn't she take her own advice?  Anybody knows, or should know, not to invite someone you do not know into your home for God's sake.

Markin sued the Match.com alleging the site should have had background screening in place before allowing people to use the site.

As part of the settlement Carole Markin dismissed the lawsuit, which she did "with prejudice," and she gave up all rights to sue the company again for the incident.
- It's sad she was raped by someone, but it's also her responsibility to check people out before dating them.  So, are we going to now have all dating sites, social networks, and possibly all web sites required to do background checks?  Everybody wants someone else to blame, instead of themselves!

Both parties will bear their own court costs and attorney fees. The settlement stipulates that it does not constitute admission of liability by Match.com.

As part of the settlement, Match.com attorney Robert Platt read a statement aloud to the court Tuesday:

"As Match.com previously announced it would do, it is checking subscribers against state and national sex offender registries. The screening process continues to be refined."
- So, are you going to also check other criminal records for murderers, thieves, gang members, drug dealers, DUI offenders, etc?

"Although Match.com has no legal obligation to do this, for several years it has periodically evaluated the practicality of conducting such checks. Match.com now believes that a combination of improved technology and improved databases enables a sufficient degree of accuracy to implement this measure."

"Match.com continues to stress that while these checks may help in certain instances, it is important that this effort does not provide a false sense of security to our members. With millions of members, and thousands of first dates a week, Match.com like any other large community, cannot guarantee and is not responsible for the actions of its members."

"Match.com is a fantastic service, having changed the lives of millions of people through the relationships and marriages it has given rise to, but people have to exercise common sense and prudence with people they have just met, whether through an online dating service or any other means."

"When you go on a site like that, you do think of it as safe. You know people lie about their weight or their age, but you don't think they're going to lie about whether or not they're a sex offender," said Markin at a news conference after court Tuesday.
- People lie about their past all the time, and I'm sure she has once in her lifetime.  Maybe you should read your own books some time!

"We believe there's going to be a domino effect to other online dating services, and that Match.com, being the largest, is now agreeing to set a new standard and raise the bar higher," said Mark Webb, Markin's attorney.
- Yep, they are sliding down the slippery slope.  Pretty soon all sites will require your real name, and a background check as well.  Even if you've never done anything wrong, that should worry you, unless you are someone who thinks the government should be your baby sitter!

Markin said she was pleased with the settlement, and that she sued the company for the greater good, and was not seeking money.

Markin said she wanted the incident to be an example for other online dating sites, and that the crime against her was preventable.
- Yes it was, if she would've not let the person into her home, and if she would've done her own checking before actually dating the man.  But she's trying to pass the responsibility off to someone else, instead of herself.



Saturday, August 20, 2011

LA - Match.com Ordered to Prove it Screens for Sex Offenders

Original Article

08/19/2011

A LA Superior Court Judge said he wants proof that Match.com is living up to its screening promises.

A Los Angeles judge Friday ordered an attorney for the dating website Match.com to return to court next week with proof that the site has implemented procedures to screen members to determine if any are convicted sex offenders.
- What about screening for other crimes as well?

The Internet dating site was sued in April by Carole Markin, who said she was sexually assaulted by a man she met on Match.com last year. She later found out the man had prior sexual battery convictions.
- And Carole has several books on "Bad Dates (here and here)," also (See the video below, or the link above).

The man, [name withheld], 67, pleaded no contest Wednesday to sexual assault.

Markin sued to compel the website to implement some type of screening procedure, such as checking prospective members against a national sex offender registry.
- Like I said above, what about other criminals?  Like murderers, gang members, thieves, etc?

Match.com officials subsequently announced that they would screen new members. In court today, Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Carl West said he wanted to see proof that the screening was in place.

"It's a very serious claim,'' West said. "If Match.com has adopted policies that are good for public, then everybody wins.''
- I disagree.  It's an invasion of privacy, and if they do not screen people against all criminal records, then it's also discrimination.

He said if the company provides proof of an operable system being used, the lawsuit would likely be settled. Markin's attorney, Mark Webb, agreed.

Match.com attorney Joseph Laska said the screening system is in place and he would bring the required proof to court Tuesday.

[name withheld] is facing 365 days in jail, five years of probation and lifetime registration as a sex offender when he is sentenced Sept. 19 by Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Barbara Johnson, according to Deputy District Attorney Jane Creighton.

A second count -- forcible oral copulation -- is expected to be dismissed after he is sentenced on the charge of sexual battery by restraint.

[name withheld] and the woman went out twice in 2010 and he sexually assaulted her after following her into her residence and holding her down after their second date, according to the District Attorney's Office.
- Why in the hell is she bringing someone she knows nothing about, into her home?



Friday, April 22, 2011

Matchmaking Sites Facing New Bills to Protect Online Daters

Original Article

How ironic, Carol Markin, who is suing Match.com for a bad date, has written several books on the same subject!

Just the usual knee-jerk reaction by politicians. So who is next? See here. I wonder if all these idiots who are okay with this, would submit to having a chip implanted under their skins "for the children" of course? I doubt it!

04/22/2011

By Greg Stacy

Matchmaking sites are facing bills in several states that would require the sites to warn consumers about the potential dangers of online dating.

The bills have been created in response to headlines about sex offenders who have been using the matchmaking sites to find their victims.
- In regards to the Carol Markin incident, it has not been through court yet, and we do not know what she says is indeed true. But nothing like jumping the gun, and eradicating peoples rights to privacy, for a little false sense of security!

Bills are currently pending in Connecticut and Texas. Connecticut's bill would require Internet dating sites to provide a notice that would appear during the registration process, warning online daters not to provide their last name, email address, place of employment, phone number or other identifying information in their dating profiles.
- So like the warning labels for idiots on food, blow dryers, etc, we must warn all the other idiots out there not to do this, when it's pretty common sense.

Similar laws are already in place in New York, Florida and New Jersey.

Legislation now in place in Texas requires online dating sites to announce whether they conduct criminal background checks on site members before they're allowed to contact other site members, with an additional requirement that the site has to remind online daters that criminals can sometimes slip through background checks.
- This is like the fine print on stuff, nobody reads it. The sites should not be responsible for this, the person should be. So much for holding people accountable for their own actions.

Lawmakers in New York are currently mulling a similar bill.

Online dating and social networking sites have increasingly been policing themselves. On Sunday Match.com announced that it would begin screening its users against the national sex offender registry. In 2009 MySpace announced that 90,000 sex offenders had been ID'ed and banned from the site.
- Nothing like discrimination! Why don't we kick off murderers, gang members, terrorists, etc?

Donna Rice Hughes, CEO and president of Enough is Enough, a Virginia- based nonprofit focused on Internet safety, told the Associated Press that these sites need to improve their safety measures.
- No, you need to stop trampling on peoples rights to privacy, and hold people accountable for their own actions. Sites need to start taking this kind of BS to court and DEFEND peoples rights to privacy, etc. Bowing down to pressure to save face, will hurt everyone in the end. Hell, let's make everyone, when they sign up for an internet account, go into a store, to make sure they are not thieves, submit to a background check first, and if they have any kind of record, deny then Internet access. Then let's see how quickly this is shot down!

"A good corporate leader needs to do that," Rice Hughes said. "The last thing they need for business is for somebody to get harmed by something through their site. ... They should be running their database against the sex offender registries. That's a no-brainer."
- For you maybe. But what about all other criminals who are more of a threat? Like gang members, terrorists, etc? Why not screen for all criminals, and if anybody has any record, kick them off? Fair is fair, right?

But there has also been some criticism of the new policies. Alex Vasquez, who founded the blog theurbandater.com, tells the Associated Press that the background checks are bound to be controversial.

"It's definitely going to be a hot-button item because there's definitely that privacy issue," he said.


Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Match.com should screen for sex offenders says lawsuit - My Cousin Adam

This is the last post I am doing on this Match.com issue.

Related Article


Video Link


How ironic, Carol Markin, who is suing Match.com for a bad date, has written several books on the same subject!

This video IS available, not sure why it's saying it's not. Click the VIDEO LINK below.


What a good way to get publicity. Find a sex offender, set up a date with them, claim you were sexually assaulted, the man goes to jail/prison, she gets free publicity and attention on all the media channels. She gets a heroes welcome, and eventually, more money in her pocket book! But I'm just speculating! I am not saying this did or didn't happen, just questioning her motives. I've read she also has a reality show coming out, wonder what it will be about? Bad dates? Here we have someone who has written two books on bad dates, and yet she did not head her own advice in her books, nor the rules by Match.com, nor common sense!, and now she wants to scream and blame Match.com?

See Also:

Bad Dates: Celebrities (And Other Talented Types Reveal Their Worst Night Out) Markin is at the mercy of her contributors, so there is dross mixed in with the gold, but these 101 brief encounters could, collectively, persuade any rational person never to date again. Take, for example, actress Kimberly Russell's dinner with a man who admired the way she smelled (he claimed to have been a dog in a past life). Or lawyer Peter Nichols, who discovered at the end of an excruciating blind date that he spent the evening with the wrong woman altogether. Unfortunately, author James Ellroy did find the right blind date: she wore a giant crucifix and her first words were "I don't usually go out with un-saved guys, but my brother said you were tall!" And Alice Cooper relates his outing with Linda Blair to see The Exorcist: "It was sort of like 'The Addams Family' going to the movies." Occasionally a disastrous date ends happily--Anne Bernays marries Justin Kaplan despite her distaste for his choice of brains for lunch. Markin is an independent filmmaker, writer and artist. Photos not seen by PW.

More Bad Dates: And Other Tales from the Dark Side of Love From the author of "Bad Dates: Celebrities Reveal Their Worst Nights Out" comes these true-life tales from bad date survivors. The romantic misadventures recounted here range from the hilarious to the outrageous, from the bizarre to the tender.


Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Wal-Smart to start screening all shoppers against the sex offender registry and criminal records, starting May 1st, 2011

Original Article

THIS IS OF COURSE SATIRE!

04/19/2011

By Ben Dover

In the recent mass hysteria over the Match.com fiasco, where a lady hooked up with a person she claims is a sex offender and is on the California sex offender registry, Wal-Smart has decided it will, on May 1st, start screening everyone who visits the store against the online sex offender database, and against FBI criminal records.

In an effort to keep prices down, due to thieves, drug dealers/users, and other evil criminals, and to protect you and your children, they will start requiring this from all who want to visit their stores for their low, low prices.

So when you visit the local Wal-Smart, be prepared to hand over your finger prints and a blood sample, to the local greeter. They will not be using drivers licenses, because they can be faked, so everyone must submit to this security precaution, for your own protection.

Please be aware, this is for everyone's safety, and to prevent any lawsuits against us.

The TSA does it, Match.com is doing it, Facebook, MySpace and many other sites are doing it, so we are joining the bandwagon. Sorry, but it's for all of our protection.

Oh yeah, you will also be screened for ugliness. If you look like one of these folks, you will be denied entry!

Thanks for your cooperation and we look forward to seeing you real soon!


Why Match.com Effort to Screen Sex Offenders Won't Work

Original Article

It's just the usually expected knee-jerk reaction by Match.com, to put out the fire, and others to give themselves perceived safety. It won't work because not all sex offenders are known, and not all are on the registry, and if a true predator is wanting to harm someone, they will, they will make up some fake name, and sign on. It is nothing more than people freaking out, trampling on peoples rights, for "safety" which is just a placebo. No other criminal, not even serial killers, get this type of discrimination and punishment. Sex offenders are nothing more than the modern day leper/scapegoat. Just wait until one day your wife accuses you of sexual abuse, you will automatically be guilty!  So my question is, where are all those who "claim" to support the constitution and civil/human rights?  Where are they?

See Also:

04/18/2011

By Benjamin Radford

One of the world's top dating websites, Match.com, announced that it would begin checking its members against a national sex offender registry. The announcement was made about a week after a class-action lawsuit was filed against the company by two women who claim men they met through the service sexually harassed them.
- So why are they not filing lawsuits against the people harassing them?  Oh yeah, there is more money to be made in suing Match.com.

Whether an attempt to ward off future lawsuits or merely a publicity stunt, the measure is nearly worthless and in fact may do more harm than good by fostering a false sense of security. There are several obvious flaws with the plan.

The first is that users on social networking and matchmaking websites typically do not have their identities verified. Thus anyone (including convicted sex offenders) can post whatever name they wish to use on the site and easily avoid triggering a match on registries.

Even if Match.com members' names were somehow verified, names are very common. A match with a name on a sex offender registry would also require a matching address to be sure it's the same person. Anyone can rent a post office box (or use a friend's mailing address) to easily avoid triggering an alert. [Predator Panic: Reality Check on Sex Offenders]

Second, even if the information provided to Match.com was completely accurate, it may not match what's on the nation's sex offender registries, which are notoriously unreliable. A 2010 study of Vermont's sex offender registry found that half of the entries sampled contained significant mistakes and wrong information (see here and here), including two people who should not have been listed. Audits in other states, including Georgia and Texas, found that the registry information for offenders was often wrong, incomplete and outdated.

Third, statistics show that relatively few assaults are committed by convicted sex offenders. That is, a given person (adult or child) is far more likely to be sexually assaulted by someone who is not listed on any sex offender registry than a convicted sex offender. The vast majority of physical and sexual assaults are committed by friends, family and other loved ones, not a recently met stranger hiding a sex offense conviction. This is one of the fundamental flaws of Megan's Laws and other offender notification measures: They distract attention and resources away from the greater threat.

Even Match.com's president, Mandy Ginsberg, acknowledged that the new measures"remain highly flawed." The rules of safe dating have not changed in decades: Meet in a public place, tell a friend where you're going, and don't give out personal information too early.

Benjamin Radford is deputy editor of Skeptical Inquirer science magazine and author of six books. His website is www.RadfordBooks.com.


CA - Woman (Carole Markin) Suing Match.Com Over Alleged Assault Comes Forward

Original Article

See Also: Why Match.com Effort to Screen Sex Offenders Won't Work

So did she get a rape kit done? If not, why not? If so, what was the outcome of it? Turns out, she has several books out on bad dates. How ironic! See here, here and here.

04/19/2011

By ANDREW SPRINGER and ALEX STONE

TV Producer Carole Markin Says She's Tired of Hiding, Happy Dating Site Will Screen Members

The once anonymous woman who filed a lawsuit against the online dating website Match.com because of an alleged sexual assault has come forward to say she's glad her suit got results.

"I'm tired of hiding behind masks and glasses," said Carole Markin this morning on "Good Morning America." "I want to come forward and speak for the other Jane Does and Joe Blows who've been abused by sexual predators and give them courage to do something for themselves."

Last week, Markin, then only publically identified only as Jane Doe, filed the civil lawsuit asking a court to force Match.com to install a sex offender screening system that checks the background of those who register for the site.

The lawsuit had asked for a temporary restraining order that, if granted, would prevent new members from signing up for Match.com until such a program is instituted. It claims Markin and the man went on a date that turned violent.

The lawsuit said the man went to Markin's house after they had dinner last May and he forced her to perform a sexual act. [name withheld] was arrested and charged but no trial date has been set. [name withheld]'s attorney maintains the sexual encounter was consensual and a trail date has not been set in that case.

Match.com officials announced Sunday it will start to screen users against a national sex offenders registry.
- I have checked the California and National registry, which they claim they will be using, and this man is NOT on the registry, so how would FORCING this web site to check the registry, have prevented this?

In a statement issued to the Associated Press, Match.com President Mandy Ginsberg said the website did not implement the screening process for years due to the "unreliability of the database" but after reviewing recent improvements, the company has decided to begin the checks with current and new members.

"I was happy that they listened to us," Markin said. "They're obviously a little afraid of us." She said the company did not talk to her directly and that she has never had a conversation with Match.com officials.
- So what about all the other online dating sites, or hell, all web sites?  Are you going to start forcing them to check the sex offender registry so you can have some temporary false security?

Markin, a successful Hollywood executive and one-time investment banker, is now working as creator of new reality show. She said she was traumatized by the event and is in therapy.




Monday, April 18, 2011

CA - Match.com bans sex offenders -- feel safe now?

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See Also: Match.com to Screen for Sex Offenders After Lawsuit

Turns out, she has several books out on bad dates. How ironic! See here, here and here.

04/18/2011

By Tracy Clark-Flory

You shouldn't. The dating site's decision to bow to pressure creates a false sense of security

I suppose this should come as no surprise: Match.com has decided to start screening for sex offenders. As I reported last week, a Los Angeles woman filed a suit against the online dating giant after a man she met on the site sexually assaulted her; turns out he had a criminal record of repeated sexual battery. Match has always resisted such calls, but suddenly it changed course late yesterday, announcing that it would begin booting sex offenders from the site, and preventing any new ones from joining, within 60 to 90 days. So, what exactly has changed?
- We have all become a bunch of pansies, not wanting to take responsibility for ourselves.  So is the Wal-Mart greeter going to start asking for finger prints, blood samples and papers next, to make sure thieves do not enter their stores?  Or what about McDonalds, Toys R Us, and all other businesses?  Should they also screen everyone at the front door to make sure they are not criminals?  Why not?  Fair is fair, right?

For several years now, the company has argued that the available screening services are unreliable and could ultimately provide a false sense of security (which is also the tack I took in response to this recent controversy). On Sunday, President Mandy Ginsberg said in a press release, "In recent conversations with providers over the last few days, we've been advised that a combination of improved technology and an improved database now enables a sufficient degree of accuracy to move forward with this initiative, despite its continued imperfection."
- So now, they are going to check people against the sex offender hit-list.  So are they also going to check other criminal records to make sure someone is not dating a serial killer?

Now, there have been positive shifts in electronic data collection, to be sure -- but nothing revolutionary has happened on this front. I suspect the most dramatic change here is in Match.com's cost-benefit analysis of screening. Sure, that recalculation has something to do with technological advances, but you also can't overstate the P.R. liability of being in any way associated with sex offenders. Ginsberg herself notes, "While these checks may help in certain instances, they remain highly flawed." It isn't just the sex offender checks that are faulty; remember that domestic abusers, murderers and all other fun flavor of criminal are still welcome to join.
- So why do them then?  You say it's a false sense of security, but then you go and do this to help that false sense of security, and helping destroy peoples right to privacy.  This is just like that woman who ordered hot coffee from McDonalds, and then burnt herself by putting it between her legs, and is also why warning labels are on stuff.

Look, from a political and philosophical standpoint I disagree with banning sex offenders of all stripes, all of whom have served their time, from online dating. I also think it's irrational to single out this one breed of violent criminal above all others. Also note that the vast majority of sexual assaults go unreported. That said, this isn't about politics, philosophy or rationality -- as is so often the case with sex offenders, it's about making everyone else feel safe.
- Exactly, so what are they going to do when someone not on the registry, does the same thing?


CA - Match.com to Screen for Sex Offenders After Lawsuit

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Like I've said before, people are lazy. So instead of themselves checking the national registry, they want someone else to do it for them, so, when something like this happens, which it will, they have someone to sue. Instead of holding adults accountable for their own actions, or inaction, someone else has to be the fall guy! I scanned the National and California registries, and this man is not on the registry, so is he or is he not a sex offender? If he is, how would having Match.com scan the registries for names, have prevented this, when he's not on the list?

04/18/2011

She wants Match.com to check members' names against public sex offender registries.

LOS ANGELES (KTLA) -- Days after a woman sued dating site Match.com, the president announced they will begin conducting criminal background checks on their users.

In a statement to the Associated Press Sunday, Match.com President Mandy Ginsberg said the company will starting screening both current and future subscribers against the national sex offender registry.

She also said they avoided doing such checks in the past because of the unreliability of the database and that users of the site should not have a false sense of security.
- So, do you also check the members against other criminal records to see if they are murderers, gang members, drug dealers, etc?  Just another company helping the sex offender moral panic along by discriminating against people.  Not all sex offenders are out looking for someone to rape or molest!

Last Thursday, an unidentified female Hollywood executive and other Match.com members are filed a civil suit against the online dating site.

She claimed she was brutally sexually assaulted by another Match.com member who had been convicted for sexual battery six separate times.
- So why did she not check the national registry herself?  Or was it because she wanted some quick money?

Attorney Mark L. Webb said his client, identified as "Jane Doe," met the suspect last year at Urth Cafe in West Hollywood after finding each other on Match.com.

She agreed to see him for a second date. That's when the suspect allegedly followed her home and raped her.

After the alleged assault, the woman went online and found that the suspect had been convicted of several counts of sexual battery, Webb said.
- She should have done this before even meeting the person.

"This horrific ordeal completely blindsided me because I had considered myself savvy about online dating safety," the woman said in a statement released through Webb last week.

"Things quickly turned into a nightmare, beyond my control."
- I disagree, you could have checked the man out beforehand, which WAS in your control.

The suit asks for temporary restraining order requesting no more members be signed up for Match.com until there's a way to screen out sexual predators.

Webb told the Los Angeles Times that his client wants Match.com to check members' names against public sex offender registries.

"It's not a guarantee," he told the Times. "But don't you think something is better than nothing?"

Match.com has called the alleged incident was "horrifying," but said cases like this are extremely rare.
- So what about all the other online dating sites out there?  Zoosk as one example, are you going to make them do the same?



Friday, April 15, 2011

AZ - Online Dating and Sex Predator Risks

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Woman suing Match.com after alleged rape by sex offender

The judge should throw this out of court. This is like the woman who burned herself with McDonalds coffee, when she put HOT coffee between her legs and was burned. Everyone is sue happy!

04/14/2011

Research your date - don't depend on the website

PHOENIX - A southern California woman says the man she met through match.com raped her. After a second date with the man, he allegedly followed her home, walked into her apartment and raped her.

She searched his name after he left and discovered that [name withheld] has been convicted 6 separate times for sexual battery.

Now she is blaming match.com for the way it screens its members. Her attorneys wrote match.com a letter asking the site to start screening members.

And if they don't, they plan on suing the site and filing a temporary restraining order.

"Match.com says on its website that is does not do background searches for individuals and individuals use the website knowing that," says Robert Platt with match.com.

The reality is, online dating sites that try to match you up could find you your ideal mate -- or a predator. But that's not the website's fault -- it's yours.

With all the warnings and disclosures, those seeking relationships know what they're getting into -- or do they? The website covers its bases by educating its users on dating safety, which means the victim has no strong legal ground to sue.

Still, a story like this brings awareness to online dating. A lot of people have found successful relationships on match.com. Apparently, it is up to the dater to research his or her date.