View the article here.She knew it was wrong.
But there Gail was, performing sex with her boyfriend in front of a 13-year-old girl.
The man, who would later become Gail's husband, dabbled in the black arts and fashioned himself a warlock. This depraved demonstration was designed to somehow enhance his dark powers. He had threatened to kill Gail and her family if she didn't go along with his plan.
Gail spent a year on probation for her role in this lewd act. Fourteen years later, she remains a modern-day pariah, one of a growing number of women included in the ranks of South Carolina's nearly 10,000 convicted sex offenders.
"When someone finds out about it, they're suddenly leery of me," said Gail, who spoke on the condition that her full name not be used. "I'm constantly having to explain myself and what happened. ... I'm not a pervert."
Some 165 women are listed on the state's sex offender registry, a small fraction in this male-dominated roster of deviance. Nationally, less than 5 percent of the sexual assaults reported to police are committed by women. But experts caution that sexual misconduct by women has long been under-reported in our society, which has had trouble accepting the notion of women as molesters.
"I think people are just waking up to it now," said Julia Hislop, a Virginia psychologist who authored a book on female sex offenders. "It took time for people to take this seriously."
Some of these perceptions have changed in recent years as strange and unsettling sex crimes involving women have made headlines here and across the country.
The South Carolina cases include:
--Laurens County teacher Wendie Schweickert, 36, arrested in February 2006 for allegedly having sex with an 11-year-old male student.
--Richland County teacher Kimberly Moody Alexander, 45, charged in September with kissing a 14-year-old boy in a parked car on a dead-end street.
--Clinton middle school teacher Allenna Ward, 23, accused in January of having sex with five boys, ages 14 and 15, at the school, at a motel, in a park and behind a restaurant.
--Former Berkeley County bus driver Lacey Bolen, 26, pleaded guilty in July 2005 to accepting $10 to allow two boys tosexually assault a 14-year-old girl on her bus while Bolen stood by.
--A couple dozen female sex offenders live in the greater Charleston area. Their crimes are varied, ranging from molesting their own children to affairs with underage boys and other crimes. One woman had a sex with a friend of her children. Another had sex with an inmate while working as a prison nurse. A third performed oral sex on a child while her boyfriend videotaped the incident.
Still, authorities say they have struggled for years to
convince the public and jurors that women are capable of rape and other sexual crimes. Charleston County prosecutor Debbie Herring-Lash said
she has had people laugh when she's given talks on the subject.
At times, even the
victims have a hard time seeing themselves as such. The episodes become colored with
rite-of-passage myths and society's
atta-boy attitude toward the sexual conquests of teenage boys. Through films such as "Private Lessons" and "My Tutor," the entertainment industry also has helped glamorize the image of the comely teacher seducing her willing, virginal student, experts said.
Even in cases where victims have been violently assaulted, people "tend to impose a Mrs. Robinson stereotype" on the episode, Hislop said, referring to the aging seductress from "The Graduate."
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People tend to feel it is a badge of honor, and it's been very difficult for me to convince people that it's a crime," said Assistant Solicitor Kristi Harrington, who prosecuted the Bolen case and other sex crimes in Berkeley County. "
This is not a badge of honor, this is a predatory act."
Female sex offenders tend to have just one victim, though
repeat predators have been documented. Many are needy individuals with low self esteem, a history of sexual abuse, family problems and mental health issues. Where male molesters tend to be driven by lust, female sex offenders often view their victims as boyfriends or willing participants, experts said.
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This kind of offender often thinks she is in love with the children," said Hollida Wakefield, a Minnesota-based psychologist who has studied women molesters. "
To them, it doesn't seem like offending. It's more of a romantic relationship."
Researchers and therapists, however, have come to see the damage these skewed relationships can inflict upon the boys involved. The victims often have difficulty forming stable relationships, develop sexual issues of their own and fall victim to drug and alcohol abuse, said William Burke, a licensed professional counselor from Summerville who assesses and treats sex offenders.
Herring-Lash, who prosecutes sex crimes in Charleston County, recalled the story of one man who was seduced by an older woman from his neighborhood when he was in his teens. By the time he reported the incident, he was in his 40s, had been in therapy and had experienced difficulty dating women, she said.
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At the time it happened, he didn't see it. He thought it was great," she said. "But later on, he realized he had been victimized."
State Rep. Karl Allen is a Greenville Democrat who represents three of the boys in the Clinton school case, which occurred in the same county where the 11-year-old was molested last year. Allen said the victims of these crimes likely will need counseling to
overcome problems with trust, guilt and behavioral issues.
"When you talk about someone who is 11, they have only been walking for less for 10 years," he said. "When someone preys upon that type of vulnerability, it does irreparable harm. ... These are babies."
Allen is pushing legislation that would institute a 25-year minimum sentence for sex crimes committed by school personnel.
A 2004 report by Charol Shakeshaft, a Hofstra University professor, found that more than
4.5 million students endure sexual misconduct by employees at their schools, from inappropriate jokes all the way to forced sex. The report found that
teachers were the most common culprits, with women accounting for 43 percent of the offenders.Public awareness of the problem has increased since the mid-1990s, when Washington state teacher Mary Kay Letourneau went to prison for her affair with a 12-year-old student. Still, debate exists as to whether female sex offenders continue to receive lighter sentences than their male counterparts. Critics are quick to point to the case of Florida teacher Debra LaFave, who
received house arrest and probation for having sex with a 14-year-old student. Her lawyer grabbed headlines by stating that LaFave's
pin-up features made her too pretty for prison.
But Gail, the South Carolina woman who had sex in front of a teenage girl, said she worries that the
public's fear of sex offenders has gone too far, leaving
little room for compassion and consideration of the facts of each case. She insists that she was as much a victim as the 13-year-old. She hopes to someday win a pardon and be removed from the registry, which has cost her jobs, friends and respect in the community, she said.